When you happen to be someone opinionated, it's likely that you attract another to be the same. That's how attraction works sometimes! One's stubborn has another to top it even more! If any discrepancy show up, thing will turn ugly because no one yields!
Each side persists in its own logic and conception and elaborates them though its aspect.
No relation can be harmonious like this~Someone has to compromise, someone has to give in~~
So.....if you take a step back, you have to put up with the resentment for being gagged, the inward struggle has no way out!
Therefore, you monologize every step back to fight for your status in your heart, but you are HUSHED!